Friends,
This is a safe space(trigger warning for some but here to help you at your own pace and compassionately as we can relate.)
This page is for you
If you have been raped/sexually abused and too scared to go to the police/if police dont believe you and even have accused you of lying and false reporting.
If you are going through any kind of abuse and too scared to let anyone know or dont know how to leave or worried you wont be believed.
If you are feeling suicidal due to the abuse going through or endured.
Traumatised due to the abuse.
Traumatised due to police and other so called Professionals failings.
Traumatised due to Family Court failings and ruined yours and your children s lives.
Want to report but dont know how or scared to.
Dont want the abuser to find out you will or have reported.
Experiencing panic attacks,nightmares,flashbacks.
Hate yourself due to what you have gone through or going through.
Need help on all of it and more-we will help you safely,confidently and we have professional methods of helping you gather information police cant ignore or they get reported.
We believe you and can help.
We believe you and will help.
We believe you and can come with you to absolutely everything 24/7 for support.
We believe you and can get you out of the abuse/stalking/post separation abuse/threats and more.
We believe you and know that yes Police can be insensitive,accusatory,fail victims hourly worldwide and Family court,cafcass,social workers and other so called Professionals who are not professionals.
Family court needs reforming.Judges have no clue how manipulative,calculative,convincing,great at lying and covering their tracks abusers can be!Parental Alienation doesnt exist and is still being used in Family courts to try and get away with abuse plus destroy Mums lives and their children s out of punishment by the perp.We believe you and can represent you and attend Family court & criminal courts,social workers meetings,cafcass and more.
We can attend Police stations,hospitals etc
Police use an old fashioned body language,eye movements and outward observations which dont relate to traumatised victims who in fact cant remember what happened to them as body protects itself shutting down.Police s ethos if a person looks a certain way they are lying is not the case as many victims trying to recall/remember look left n right up and down so that method doesnt work as a form of investigating the victim if lying or not and police should no longer use that method.
Professionals infer if for eg a person is lying if body isnt shaking and is getting frustrated to them-not that they want to be believed!.....but if a person is shaking and isnt responding how expected/wanted then the so called professionals infer that the person is mentally unwell,paranoid,lying and calculative so cant win!!!!We are here to help you get justice!They need more training on trauma and how each individual copes differently mentally & physically.
We are a Victims Care Hub as a mediator between all Professionals and you!
We are training the Police re body language,how to sensitively approach a victim,how to properly interview an abuser and more.
We are training judges and Family Court staff.
We are training all Professionals involved in all sectors when it comes to any kind of abuse & stalking.
We liaise 24/7 with you and 'Professionals' involved to help you feel supported,believed,cared for and fight to get justice.We fight for you and care!
We can support your journey from financial,a new home,childcare,etc
If you have been failed by any of these 'Professionals' we will get them investigated and prosecuted.
We have people in Government who care.
We have Professional Professionals who want a change to occur and are there to support us and you along the way,confidently and change is needed.
We do not let a victim become a criminal/deformation of character.
We push for the perp to become the criminal as he/she is the criminal as abused/stalked you!!!!
We are here for you.
We care for you.
We care for your situation.
We care for your children.
We care.
If you have animals we can help with them also.
If you are under 18 and living with your parents/foster care parents/siblings/neighbours/Teachers/adults/so called friends who are being abusive get in touch and we shall support you in an appropriate way.
(If you are being bullied online or at school etc get in touch too)
We can help you with your impact statement.
No sorry will help you feel better said from the Perp nor Professionals.Criminal must go to jail.Professionals need a standard practice across the board to believe on the victim immediately.Failings need to be held accountable for eg 1 year in jail and sacking from their job like they put alleged victims of sexual assault turned to criminals due to not being believed!
Reporting is key to get justice-dont let the narrative you wont get believed as with us by your side we will fight and ensure you get justice.
We do prison visits if you are in prison due to being failed by the system and had to defend yourself against the perp and not understood.
Police need more training.
Judges need more training.
Social workers need more training.
Cafcass need abolishing/more training.
Reporters need more training/investigate the case themselves before reporting (even if the victim has pleaded guilty forced by the police of lying as they didnt investigate the case themselves).
Women s Aid/Mens Aid need more training.
Refuge workers need more training.
Court staff need more training(as often give out the confidential adresse of the victim being stalked to the perp for eg!!!!).It is our mission for this to occur so more perps dont get away with abusing/stalking you!!!!!
Many mistakes are made by Professionals which cause more incidents,trauma and stress for the victims-this must stop and can be easily avoided through training from who should attend as for eg a female victim doesnt want to have two male police officers attend as would prefer female officers...same with doctors at hospital....same when being interviewed....same as social workers/cafcass they need recording so transparency is key as we know some social workers/police/cafacass officers have lied on paperwork/to cover up their failings(some even dont like the victim which is unprofessional so side with the perp which is disgraceful and must not occur as unprofessional or if the perp has a police friend etc -we monitor all professionals to ensure transparency occurs from beginning to end of each case.We monitor how the victim is treated by all professionals.We liaise between all parties ie from Police,social workers/cafcass,court staff,IDVA s ,ISVA s,Personal alarm companies,etc and the victim.The victim s priority,safety,mental,emotional,physical and pyschological well being is key which none of these Professionals cater for as too busy witho ther cases,dont believe,had enough of their job,dont care or dont want to care or even shockingly side/cover up with/for the perp ignoring evidence.
If you would like to be involved and your acknowledge that yes change needs to occur,not enough victims get justice and reform of the entire system needs changing plus most importantly 2023 training needs occuring when it comes to Trauma,Body language,eye movements,speech,self expression,evidence,prevention,stalking,abuse,paperwork/filing,investigating victim and perp,understanding current methods are irrelevant,gaslighting,coercive control,post separation abuse,family court perp abuse,when entering a property how to see/hear evidence as we know a victim whose neighbour called hearing physical abuse -they were both out of breath(due to him hitting her and her being thrown around n beaten),sheets off the bed,etc all ignored and police asked her if he was being abusive to her-she of course said no as frightened he would kill her like he said he would.Police need to handle Domestic abuse far better and help the victim.Another perp got removed from the property,not arrested,police left and perp returned and abused her more.Police need more training and take any kind of abuse & stalking far more seriously!Damages the victims body and brain(abuse and stress)being failed causing them to turn to drugs,alcohol,binge eating,anorexia and more...family court then say the victim is a risk and mentally unwell so remove child(if have a child)not that the victim was failed and wasnt correctly protected by the police etc so just needs support and help to return back to herself before she met this awful individual.Family court even accuse a victim of being mentally unwell/unstable if she cries or has a panic attack in court ...not thinking she/he is in court with the perp and doesnt even want to be in the same room let alone hear their voice nor relieve what she/he went through!
Zero understanding for a victim at the moment.
Social workers who separate child and victim instead of supporting them....We are against any kind of abuse of a child so fully support fully evidenced(not guessing by one social worker/cafcass officer as their opinion isnt valid and as mentioned previously some have lied which is unacceptable)abuse if mum/victim has turned their hurt onto their child/pet-each victim needs supporting so always safe and can lead the best life possible.
Our ethos is we have meetings like marac with all Professionals but liaise and attend between all and relate back to the victim plus the victim comes to us and we ensure all of the relevant & necessary parties are involved os the case is taken seriously,dealt with correctly from the beginning,no failings occur and justice occurs for the victim/perp is held accountable and is stopped from abusing/stalking for life.
From Royalty to hardworking level of individuals involved in trying to protect as many victims as possible and change the system positively-our Victims Care Hub-we are here for you.
Contact us when safe to do so night/day.
We can educate you on how to gather evidence so your case is strong,how to reduce the stalking and how to remain as safe as possible.
We can ensure you,your children,pets are safe.
We believe you.We feel sorry this has happened or is happening to you and can help.
Get in touch.
Check out our 'Back To You Foundation' page on this website as relatable with lots of additional information that can also help.
Hugs.